Thursday, March 8, 2012
7 Tips on Solving Conflicts between Husband and Wife
Never-ending conflict between husband and wife could be annihilating not solely for a married couple, but for the family unit as well. The emphasis and stress it applies the whole family can have enduring personal effects. It is time to determine a way to stop the conflict, and act upon toward saving your marriage.
I've been married for less than a year now, but we've been in a relationship for almost 15 years. Conflicts always arises between me and my husband whenever we have certain topics that differs one another. In my blog, I've explored certain points to strengthen our relationship even more.
So here it is...
Don't discuss your difference of opinion unless you both are in a reasonalbly calm mood. If one, or both are upturned, better delay till another time when the discussion will not be blamed with emotional partial tone*.
Don't make sweepingly melodramatic statements. You are not out to win an "Academy Award". Preserve the play acting for some other occassion. Attempt instead to nail the difficulty and talk it out with the control.
Don't tty to go down more than one thing at once. Don't use one discrepancy as an excuse to drag up grudges which are unconnected to the subject under discussion.
Don't raise you voice. Long after the argues because variances is lost, husbands and wives may remember insults cast in anger.
Don't procrastinate because your pride hurts. Whenever an avenue for understanding all of a sudden opens up, move right along to an loveable solution.
Don't broadcast your disagreements. Whenever you tell your secrets to relatives-in-law or acquaintances, your mate will all but surely find out about it - and begrudge it. A husband and wife should feel that they can speak freely to each other without experiencing their inmost feelings revealed to others.
Don't let resentment continue over-night. even if you have reached an deadlock over some matter, declare a temporary cease-fire and finish your day in a balanced feeling. After sleep, you and your partner may have a different opinions on the subject and an attitude of compromise which will assist achieve a peaceful resolution.
Are you ready to invest away the effort it will take to assist your marriage? Because hurt feelings and conflict can be hard to resolve, and pride is something that not only has to be overcome, but all has to be let go of. Are you ready to really work at rescuing your marriage?
I do...how about you?